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We don’t really have full control of our lives. We’re on a planet with billions of others with the capacity to end ours, in a solar system with projectiles hurdling toward us and if you have a belief system, one being has our path pre-determined. What we can do, is to manage what we have direct control of. So I guess what I’m saying is, think small.

I’m really looking forward to 2012. I’ve been thinking about changes I need to make and decided start anew on 1/1.

  • Downsize. We started looking at the amount of stuff we have in our house. Do we need all of these clothes, shoes, cymbals, etc? No. So we are going though and thinning the herd. Selling some things, donating some away.
  • Saving. Where did our money go? Why did we just spend $500?
  • Eating better. Actually, this should be eating smarter. Cut out fast food, cook at home more often. Look at what we put in our bodies. I do this anyway because of my diabetes, but it is to really eat well without wasting time on bad food
  • Music Education. I’m also trying to revisit/relearn music. More of tune my awareness of folks who were past their prime when I started listening. I’m not a fan of Springsteen, but I’m  gonna try to listen to each album and see why I don’t like the guy. Some really good songs, but I’ve always thought he was overrated on a majority of his catalog.

 

 

 

We’ll see how this goes in 2012.

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I’ve always equated blogging with how we begin a conversation. When you meet someone we lack the depth of each other’s likes and dislikes, so we talk about the weather instead. So many people use this starter conversation as the reason they dismissed blogging and now Twitter.

“I don’t wanna hear about someone’s meal”. We dip our toes in the social water by trying to find a common ground, so we move beyond the weather to food or yard-work. We signup for Foursquare or we just talk about the service at our local haunts. Again, we test the waters and open up about what’s personal.

As we get comfortable, We grow and we start talking about politics, religion, sports, etc. We start talking about the things which make us individuals.

I started blogging back in 1999 but put everything online in 2000. I covered techie things, then dove into my life. I spoke about discovering I’m a diabetic, before my friends knew. I talked about getting engaged and married, I spoke more about my life and what I did for a living. But eventually, I pulled back. I’m still shocked by how open I was back then. I had a few family issues with the occasional post and just decided to stop opening up.

I had a few attempts at continuing my blogging but didn’t like my voice at the time. Of the most life-changing times, I really just dried-up creatively and didn’t want to type out what I dealt with during my health issues. I looked introspectively and now feel I’ve started over. So, I decided to start blogging again. Not really sure about what I’m gonna write, don’t know if it’s gonna last but it’s worth another try.

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